Contact a funeral director, inform close family, and gather necessary documents such as the will, death certificate, and insurance details.

When someone dies, the doctor who was treating the person will issue a Medical Certificate of Cause of Death. If the death was sudden or the doctor who was treating the person is unavailable, it may not be possible for the medical certificate to be issued and so the death is reported to the coroner. This could lead to a delay in registering the death.

Every death in England and Wales must be registered in the district in which it takes place - within 5 days of the date of death. If the person registering the death lives a long distance away then it is possible to register the death at an office local to them 'by declaration' and any register office will advise on this.

The following people may register a death: a relative of the deceased, someone present at the death or the person making the arrangements with the funeral director.

Additionally, if the death occurred in a house, then an an occupant of the house may register the death, if in a hospital then a hospital administrator can do this. If the death occurred elsewhere then the person who found the body or the person in charge of the body may register the death.

Research local funeral directors, you can ask for recommendations from your family, friends, clergy, or hospice. You can also compare the prices and services of different funeral directors online or by phone. You should choose a funeral director who is reputable and respectful of your wishes and budget. Contact them to discuss services, pricing, and available options.

Burial involves interment in a cemetery, while cremation reduces the body to ashes. Costs and emotional considerations differ for each choice.

A 'traditional funeral' involves a viewing or visitation, where the body of the deceased is displayed in a coffin, followed by a funeral service, where a ceremony is held, and then a burial or cremation.

Other options include direct burial or cremation. This involves a simple and quick disposition of the body, without a viewing or service. If there is a direct cremation, the ashes are either returned to the family or scattered in a designated place.

Costs vary, but on average, a funeral can range from £3,000 to £5,000. This includes the service, coffin, burial or cremation, and related expenses. The average cost of a funeral in the UK in 2023 was £3,953 (according to SunLife).

The costs will vary depending on the type of funeral, the services and products you choose. Some of the common costs are:

- Funeral director's fees: The professional services of the funeral director, such as transportation, preparation, paperwork, and coordination of the funeral arrangements.

- Coffin and Urn: The price can range from a few hundred to several thousand pounds, depending on the material, design, and quality.

- Burial or cremation fees: The burial fees include the cost of the grave plot, the opening and closing of the grave, the grave marker, and the maintenance of the cemetery. The cremation fees cover all the costs of the cremation process.

- Funeral service fees: The venue, staff, equipment, and materials for the funeral service, such as the hearse, flowers, music, the orders of service.

- Other expenses: The additional costs that may arise, such as the death certificate, obituary, transportation, accommodation, post ceremony gathering and catering.

Embalming isn’t usually obligatory except for specific circumstances such as a public viewing or if there’s a delay before burial.

Absolutely, you can personalise the service with music, readings, photos, and other meaningful tributes to honour your loved one.

There might be government assistance you can access, such as the Funeral Expenses Payment, or support from charities such as the Child Funeral Charity which assists families who have to arrange a funeral for a baby or child aged 16 or under.

Discuss with family to make decisions based on what feels respectful and appropriate for the individual.

Grief is the natural and normal response to losing someone you love. It can affect you physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. There is no right or wrong way to grieve, and everyone grieves differently and at their own pace.

Maybe lean on family and friends, or seek support from grief counsellors or support groups to navigate the emotional challenges. You are not alone in your grief, and you can find help and hope in your journey. The funeral can provide a very important anchor in travelling on that journey.

This is perfectly and legally possible, but the process can be complex. Funeral directors provide guidance and handle logistics during a difficult time.

Plan a gathering to offer comfort and support for guests, share memories, and celebrate the life of the deceased. Consider location, refreshments, and activities honouring their memory.

Involving children in the funeral can help them understand and cope with the death of a loved one as well as providing an opportunity to say goodbye and to receive support from others. You should, however, consider the age, maturity, and personality of the child, and their relationship with the deceased.

Some of the ways to involve children in the funeral are:

- Explain to them what a funeral is, and what will happen during the funeral. Use simple and honest words, answering their questions as best as you can.

- Ask them if they want to attend the funeral. if they decide to go, prepare them for what they will see, hear, and feel, and accompany them throughout the funeral.

- If appropriate, invite them to participate in the funeral, if they wish to. they can do things such as choosing or making a card, a flower, a toy, or a photo to place in or on the coffin, reading a poem, a letter, or a prayer, singing a song, or sharing a memory of the deceased.

- Support them after the funeral. Check on their feelings and reactions and provide them with comfort, reassurance, and guidance. You can also help them create a memory book, a scrapbook, or a collage to remember their loved one.

You may not immeditely know what to say or do, or how to help them cope. However, you can show your care and compassion by following these tips:

- Be present and available. Let them know that you are there for them and that you are willing to listen, talk, or just sit with them if they need it.

- Be patient and understanding. Allow them to grieve at their own pace and in their own way, without imposing your expectations or opinions on them.

- Be encouraging and hopeful. Remind them of their strengths, resources, and support; without dismissing their loss or forcing them to move on.

Supporting someone who is grieving can also affect you emotionally and physically. You should take care of yourself and your well-being, and seek help if you feel overwhelmed or stressed.